So, now to get off my soap box, being single is not horrible. Its actually not that bad. I have been single now for almost a year. (OMG SPINSTER STATUS) Am I looking to find "mr. right" of course, but its not my life. Being single in a city like NY, isn't the worst thing you can do. There is so much to do here. Bars, parties, events, and my favorite place on earth Fire Island (to quote one of my favorite queen Porsche "Fire Island, the cruise ship that doesn't move!"). I have a great group of friends. We have a great time going out and acting a fool. My friend Christian and I have gone to different areas, and always say "If we lived there we would be married too, did you see them?" That is probably just our evil bitchy sides coming out to bite us in the ass.
So one of the other joys of being single in NY, is we can get married here. I know this has been more of a YAY I'm single blog, but in all honesty, eventually, I would like to get married. So me being single is less about me being unable to find "Mr. Right" in a sea of "Mr. Right nows" and even more "Mr. Wrongs" (you know who you are. LOL). But for now, I'm gonna live my life for me not some hypothetical guy thats "Just around the corner". Plus "If you stop looking he will find you!" Or whatever other ploy people in relationships tell their poor single friends. Seems counter intuitive if I stop looking and he stops looking, how the fuck are we supposed to meet? (Digest that and shit it out!! Oh I schooled you)
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